A flower doesn't compete with the flower next to it, it just blooms. So ladies, we have to stop seeing each other as competition. It's just not sexy, and it's waaaay too distracting. 

Be your own kind of beautiful, and your own kind of beautiful is simply YOU being YOU. CAN'T NOBODY beat you being you when you're being you. So your flower pot may not look like my flower pot, but that's ok.  BLOOM WHERE YOU'RE PLANTED. Regardless of the pot, I've never see an ugly flower. So take your eyes off the pot next to you and bloom, baby, bloom.

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