"You’re fighting for something you can’t grow with you." Words spoken from author, C Quarels.

You’re going through his or her phone... watching their every move. You're putting in overtime trying to make things work with somebody who can’t even tell you what their dreams and aspirations are, let alone what YOURS are. So where are ya’ll going? If you’re a woman or man wanting to grow… wanting to advance, why would you expend so much energy and time on someone or something that can’t grow with you?

In those situations, one of two things happen….. You STOP growing so you can be with whom/what you're fighting for; or two, you move on and stop wasting your time on a fruitless effort that’s going no where really fast.