Stop being intimate with folks you were only meant to be acquainted with. You're all close to these people... Got 'em all in your business... in your house when it was never meant for them to be that up close, personal and chummy chummy with you. And now you wondering why there's chaos and confusion in the relationship.  And Lord forbid we talk about the folks who made it to your bedroom. Ouch....

The problem is you gave them the wrong label. You should've given them an "acquaintance label". Instead, you labeled them a partner.... friend.... wifey....etc. when none of were supposed to be.

In 2018, let's do some relabeling. Discernment is key.