How a man or woman treats you will tell you everything you need to know about how they feel about you. My mamma says, "A set of lips will say anything". Pay attention to how a person treats you. If he never takes you anywhere and yall’s relationship is a secret, guess what....He’s showing you how he feels about you You should believe him. If she telling never appreciates anything you do… takes, but never gives. She’s showing you how she feels about you. Believe her. And just as a side note... Some of ya’ll need to stop going with folks who are not going with you. You all in a relationship without the other person's permission. Free game. :)