Sometimes you have to really sit back and balance your circle/relationships just as you would do for your bank account. Both share a similar function- withdrawals and deposits.  At the end of the day, the goal for both is to stay in the black and to stay OUT of the red. Do your friendships/relationships withdraw more than they deposit into your accounts (emotional account, mental account, spiritual account)? If so, it’s time to do a reevaluation of your circle. In doing so, remember…. Everybody’s not meant to be in your life for the REST of your life. Some folks are just seasonal.  Trust and believe me, you always know who’s seasonal when your growth causes conflict within the circle.