You gotta (have to) set boundaries and draw a line with some folks ESPECIALLY if you're a giver. Givers really have to set boundaries because takers rarely do.

You gotta draw a defined line between people and your energy.... your time & attention... your heart...and even your pocket book. Stop spending your time and brain cells debating fools. During these trying times folks are very reckless with their tongues. You’re not gonna change that ignorance by debating.

Lastly... quit giving people money and getting mad when they don't pay you back. People will take and take and take and take until they deplete you.