A soror of mine once told me something that I use to govern many of my moves, my relationships and my decisions in general. She told me to follow peace. God is not the author of confusion, but of peace. So if you have confusion, chaos, and turmoil in your house, your relationships, on your job…. As my grandmother would say… "That ain’t Jesus!". :)

But seriously when you follow peace, that means sometimes you gotta say no when folks want and expect you to say yes. When you follow peace, that could very well mean the dismissal of friends, boos and/or some family. Hear me when I tell you that there's no dollar amount you can place on peace of mind. So, remember... in all your decision making, ask yourself if the decision you're making is accompanied by peace.