Just as you take inventory of your purchases and balance your checkbook, you also have to take inventory of the folks in your life and balance your relationships. 

Are you surrounded by people who feed you or just people who need you? Because here's the thing... often times people who make the biggest withdrawals make the smallest deposits. And what will happen is you will look up one day and be in the red because you have depleted your emotional account... your spiritual account and often times, your physical account. If you're like me you want to help... but you can't be everything to everybody. It's ok for people to "need" you sometimes, but it definitely can't be more needing than feeding.