It's hard to hear God's answers to your prayers when you already have it set in your heart what you want.... Because the heart can't help what the heart wants even if it's something we don't need. So, we tend to view those prayers as "unanswered prayers". But here's the thing..... When you say, "God show me" or when you say, "God fix it," ya gotta mean it AND you have to be prepared for how HE chooses to show you and/or fix it. And sometimes that answered prayer doesn't come wrapped in a bow. It's wrapped in sandpaper. But one thing I know, and two things for certain...... When He shows you or when He fixes it..... He leaves NOTHING to second guess about, and that doesn't always feel good.