Don't get so comfortable in your relationship that you start being more of a liability than an asset.... whether it's emotionally, financially or spiritually. 

Who was that who said, "The same thing it took to get your baby, it's gonna take the same thing to keep her... OR him"? That's real... Especially if you're in a relationship with someone who is genuinely with you because they LOVE you, but don't necessarily need you. And in that case, the worst thing you can ever do is drive that person to the point of taking inventory... You will likely be the first thing to go.  If you want that man or woman, revisit how you got em in the first place.