Stop trying to sell the win to losers. I know that sounds cold… Quite honestly I think we’re all born to win!!  But it doesn’t matter if I think you’re a winner but you see yourself a loser.

Friends, give your effort, your time, and energy to people who want to win… People who come up with solutions, not excuses. Folks willing to grow… (Cause growth ain’t comfortable)  Those who want more and want to be more. Don’t get distracted and frustrated because you’re steady planting seeds, going out watering every day, but the ground you're sowing on is rock.

Here’s the thing: The hardest person in the world to help is someone who has become comfortable being dysfunctional.  Sometimes you have to take your hands off a situation and/or person, pray for them and let them do them.